Daylle's News & Resources

                               Issue # 12

Hello to you all!

New York City is just beginning to show signs of spring. It's been a long winter and seeing buds sprouting on trees makes me smile. I hope that you're all smiling too. : ) Spring is a time of renewal - take advantage. It's always a good time to assess your goals, look for ways to reach them, see how much you've accomplished, and set new goals. I set mine in teeny weeny increments so I accomplished many. Lately I've been buried in the research for my next book. I still have a long way to go but it will be worth it. I've already interviewed over 100 people and lots more to talk to. A nice bonus is that I have many new, wonderful friends!

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I'm getting ready for my trip to Nashville from April 27th to May 13th. I'll be in Memphis from May 6 - 10th. On May 8th I'll be doing a seminar in Memphis. The details are below under #3. I'm VERY excited about this trip as I've never been to either city. I know it's going to be lots of fun to explore the music scenes. Several organizations have offered their support and I've been in touch with many people who've also offered to show me around. I've asked if I'll be available to do consulting while in Nashville and Memphis. Definitely! Please get in touch with me if you're interested.
And don't forget, I do phone consulting too.

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1. Getting Through Those Tough Times
2. Cheap Postcards
3. My seminar
4. Indie Tips from successful indie artist, Beth Wood
5. Minding Your Music Biz: Band agreements
6. Ask Daylle: How do I get over stage fright?
7. Interview with Mark Wood
8. Industry events


1. Getting Through Those Tough Times: Have you noticed that things don't always go as planned? It happens way too often for most of us. Sometimes it's not even a bad thing, but we're not in the mood for a curve ball. Unexpected events or outcomes happen regularly. You can whine about it to friends and feel lousy, or view problems as opportunities to learn and see how strong your passion for music is. My strong spiritual faith allows me to accept life's glitches more easily. No matter what happens, I say out loud that everything happens for a reason and something good will come of it. It always does. To me, faith in whatever you're comfortable with is the best anti-dote for stress and discouragement. I love finding the reasons later on. They're always there.

I asked many of the artists that I interviewed for my next book how they persevere when things get them down. Here's a sample. Let them inspire you as they've inspired me.

Matt Allison: It can be hard to keep focused and to keep persevering, especially when you don't get the response you were hoping for. But I have learned to look back on where I started and where I am now and it seems to put it all in perspective.

Christine Kane: When you put yourself out there in any career, you're going to be hit with some hard blows, face all of your worst doubts, deal with some unkind people, and have some weeks, months and years when you wish you'd gone to journalism school like everyone told you to instead of becoming an artist. So here's what I try to do: I try to keep my focus on my intent and why I do this. Not all of my reasons are pure, but at the deepest level I know this is what I'm meant to do, and this is how I reach people. I remind myself of this pretty regularly.

Dean Seltzer: The biggest thing I've learned is there's a million reasons to quit and one reason to stick to it - you love it. If you're in it for the money or the drugs or anything like that, get out. It's hard work, you don't get much sleep, and you tend to be under-appreciated. You deal with so much bullshit - people stabbing you in the back. The only thing to keep you going is knowing that there's nothing more rewarding and exciting than playing music in front of a crowd of people.

Danielle Egnew (Pope Jane): The music is always amazing and fulfilling, but the rest is quite often laborious and unfulfilling, at least while doing it - but there is always a feeling of accomplishment after many press kits have been mailed, or a newspaper has accepted an invitation to a show to do a live review. An artist will benefit from keeping their eye on the prize, which is showcasing their art. Artists should be realistic in assessing what makes them happy, and stick to that.

Alex Woodard: It's tough to always be inspired, and I let the moments when I really am inspired hit me before I write songs. I don't force it. But the main thing is that I can't imagine doing anything else.

 

Jennie DeVoe: Perseverance is the absolute necessity for an artist. Self-discipline is the challenge. You just do it cuz you're driven. You can't wait for stuff to happen. Do whatever you can to move forward, promote yourself and here and there measurable successes take place. I go through down times like anyone and question myself as to why I continue when the 'monster of music' machine simply excludes so much good talent. Everyone goes through it.

Gregory Abbott: You should surround yourself with other creative people with whom you can share insights, strategies, resources etc. You want around you folks who are encouraging and inspiring, who themselves are seeking this higher goal. Also, follow your own intuition. Some of my most successful projects have been ones in which I made a decision to stick to my guns. Persevere. At the end of the day your most valuable asset is your belief in yourself.

DJ Minx: I stay focused mainly because I'm optimistic. I know there's things I want in life for me and my family, and I need to work hard to achieve these goals. No pain, no gain.

2. Cheap Postcards: For years I've been touting the benefits of using postcards as fliers to promote yourself and your music. Nowadays, they've become the most popular means to spread the word. Last week I met some guys from a company that makes glossy coated cards for the cheapest I've ever seen. Now understand I don't know them except for one meeting. But the samples they had were top quality and they say it's a quick turn-around time. They offer 5,000 glossy coated (both sides) color postcards for $199. They also print biz cards and much more. You can contact them at http://www.samedayflyers.com or 888-441-PRINT. If anyone uses them, let me know how you like the product and service.

3. My next seminar: My February seminar was packed. It was the only private seminar I'll do this year. If my time permits, I'll do another full day one in New York next February.

I am available for speaking for others who put the event together. I'll be doing a Start & Run Your Own Record Label seminar in Memphis TN on May 8th, from 11:00 AM to 5:00 PM. Registration begins @ 10:00 am. It's at The Complex @ 704 -704 Madison Avenue, Memphis, TN. Because there's sponsorship, the seminar fee is only $20 and it's 1/2 price for members of BMI, ASCAP, NARAS & Musician Organizations. I'll be speaking for almost 4 hours and then there will be 2 hours of panels with noted industry people. If you live in that area, you shouldn't miss this opportunity.

4. Indie Tips from successful indie artist, Beth Wood: Beth did a fantastic interview for my book but also shared an article she wrote called, "Beth Wood's Ten Things Indie Artists Should Do (and a Few You Shouldn't). It's long, so I'll have half in this issue and the other 5 in the next. Thank you Beth, for allowing me to share this with my readers! Part 1

1. Have a product to sell. If you are serious about a career in music, make a recording. This may sound simple, but consider it an investment in your future. With technology these days, it is becoming more and more affordable to make a high-quality CD at a home studio. Many indie artists find that a good percentage of their income comes from sales of CDs, T-shirts, etc. Being an indie artist, all profits go to you. Also, your CDs will serve as advertisements for what you do. If one person passes on your CD to a friend, you have a potential new fan who might come to your next show.

2. Be willing to give some things away. Technology makes it easy to burn your own CDs. Give away 2-3 song samplers of your new material. Your audience will feel like they are in on something, and hopefully they will be intrigued and want to buy your new material when it comes out. Throw in free stickers (great for advertising your name) for people who buy CDs. Stickers are inexpensive and will help you get name recognition. Consider playing for free in certain situations. Doing benefit shows can be wonderful for word-of-mouth and exposure to new audiences. Most do publicity, draw a diverse audience, and will let you sell merch.

3. Connect with your audience. Look them in the eye at least some of the time while you are performing. Please don't look at your shoes the whole time. If this interaction is hard for you, find someone in your band who is really good at audience interaction and encourage him/her to engage them. When your show is over, walk straight into the audience and over to the CD table and start talking with people. People want to support the indie musician. Make it easy for them to do so by being approachable and kind. Being an indie musician is all about grass-roots promotion, so be willing to shake some hands.

4. Observe the golden rule. This sounds simple, but it is important. When you go into a new club, be friendly. Learn the staff's names. Learn the sound-person's name and remember it - he/she is your friend. Write this information down when you get home so you'll remember next time you go back. If you are nice, people are generally excited about booking you again. Also, befriend other bands who play the same clubs as you do. Sharing information and resources with other musicians is invaluable. OTHER MUSICIANS ARE YOUR GREATEST ALLIES, so make an effort to be friendly. Finally, dealing with club owners, radio stations, record stores, etc. on the phone can be very frustrating. Remember at all times that these folks are busy and they are trying to make a living. Be respectful and concise. When you send your press kit to a new club, don't include every single scrap of paper with your band name on it. Pick one good article and a few quotes, a photo, a bio, and your contact info. Realize that those guys are busy and they just need an overview of who you are and what your band does.

5. Take the time to get proper copyrights. It is important to protect your creative works. It's not that there are people lurking in the halls just waiting for a chance to steal your music, but protecting yourself as fully as possible just makes sense. It is true that there is such a thing as a "common law" copyright, but this does not carry the same weight in a legal dispute as a registered copyright. It is fairly inexpensive to register your works (you can register a whole CD as one project for $30). You can visit the U.S. Copyright Office website at http://www.loc.gov/copyright/ for info and instructions.

Beth Wood has carved a successful independent career for herself. She considers herself a singer/songwriter, barefoot acoustic enthusiast. She's been touring full-time for seven years with no day job! Beth has been recognized for her work in national college touring and other areas of her career. Check her and her music out at http://www.bethwoodmusic.com and let her know if her tips were helpful.

5. Minding Your Music Biz: One of the hardest things about being in a band is being in a band. Solo artists don't know how *easy* they have it. Trying to work with a group can be hard if ALL of you aren't consciously trying to work together as a team. Lead singers need to avoid the star mentality. If you want to be the shining star, go solo. Otherwise, there will be resentment and many problems that stem from that attitude. I recently interviewed Pat Dinizio, lead singer of the Smithereens, who's now happy to be independent. He advises, "You have to be gentle with each other. The band has to be your family. There has never been a fight in the Smithereens. How else could we have stayed together for 25 years? It comes with respect and admiration for each other. You have to respect each other and give each other the space they need."

Stuff still can happen between band members. That's why you MUST get everything in writing if you want to do your music as a business. Of course you should trust each other but establish your business in an agreement between you. Spell everything out. There are many things to work out. Brian Caplan, Esq., (http://www.glrslaw.com) a litigating attorney in New York City, says he has litigated disputes among band members which probably could have been avoided if the band had created partnership agreements early on. He advises:

"Written band partnership agreements can save band members substantial headaches and legal fees down the road. Although newly formed bands often don't have significant resources to hire transactional attorneys, it is clearly in their interest to memorialize the respective ownership interests, rights and obligations of each band member among themselves as early as possible. Litigation among band members is common when no partnership agreement exists. Issues that frequently arise are (1) who owns the name of a band when the band breaks up or a member leaves, (2) can a member get ejected from a band right before a large advance is due from a record label and if so, should the ejected member have any right to share in such advance when he or she will not be part of the new record project (3) what rights does a former band member have in continuing merchandising of the band's name and likenesses and (4) if there are unequal splits on record royalties are other income streams split equally (touring, merchandising, etc.). A band's minimal investment in the drafting of a partnership agreement will be well rewarded down the road."

6. Ask Daylle: A reader asks, "How do I get over stage fright?" EVERYONE gets some stage fright. It's normal, especially at the beginning, to be apprehensive about performing in front of a crowd. The more you do it, the easier it can get. Practice! As you improve as a performer, the more confidence you'll have. I get nervous too and like saying affirmations to myself just before an appearance on TV - "My performance will be fine. The audience will like me." over and over to calm down. Start with small audiences until you get more comfortable. Don't let a bad gig wipe you out. It happens to all of us. I do a lot of live radio and TV appearances. Sometimes a caller tries to rattle me. And it works. But I put it behind me and keep the faith in me. When I had to do an interview on Howard Stern, I was terrified at first. But I believed in what I had to say and my ability to handle myself. I also trusted God to support my belief. People who heard the interview actually asked if I'd put a spell on him because he was so nice to me. I expected him to be nice! I sounded very calm yet I was still nervous. Faith allowed me to do it with confidence. When you have faith in your talent and ability as a performer, and in a higher being, you can trust yourself more. Keep practicing until you prove to YOU that your performance rocks. If it doesn't, get help and practice until you believe it.

7. Interview with Mark Wood: Electric violinist Mark Wood started out wanting to be a rock star. He was signed in the late 80s and early 90s and appeared on CNN and the Tonight Show. Mark has won platinum records and gold records. He's composed for the Olympics and won an Emmy awards last summer. He also has a music library of his original compositions that gets licensed by a variety of producers and designs his own line of violins. And he loves being independent. Here are some highlights of his interview.

Why do you think that wanting to be a rock star was a mistake? 99% of the people out there got dropped and have to go back to working at the hardware store. I witnessed that. I was a bit of an oddity, because 20 years later I'm still making a really good living at it. The mistake was thinking that the half a million record deal was the start of a long and full career, which is not the case at all.

Why did you choose to be independent? Why wait for a company to tell me when and when not to record? To tell me that I'm valid or not valid, or that I'm not going to sell records if I play that music? That helps one realize they must create their own business ventures. Then I started to get paid to write music and realized there is an income pipeline that I needed to tap into, and stay away from record companies and managers because the pipeline stops with them. They decide how much they're going to pay you after taking their percentages. Once I realized I could talk directly to directors, music people, producers and saw I could get paid directly from clients, everything changed. I manufacture all of my merchandise and products. The ultimate for me is that the money that I've generated is money specifically given to me for what I produce.

Why is being professional so important? You have to learn how to behave and handle yourself in a professional scenario where you're around business people in suits and ties, so you don't come off as being a lame, stupid rock and roll musician. A lot of the suit and tie people are scared of musicians as being flaky - partying all night.

How can musicians get taken more seriously? After years of doing this, I see that you have to charm people. If somebody doesn't like you, it's very difficult to get a job or get people to give you money.

You have your own music library? I developed it after years and years of writing music. I love to write sports music. I wrote for the Olympics and ESPN and all the sports networks call me to write music for them. It's my forte. After about 15 years of doing that I have over 200 compositions that I have the rights to so I can release a music library on the side.

What's your best advice? Be as artistically brilliant as David Bowie but have Donald Trump's ability to know what a good deal is and how to negotiate.

How do you feel about being independent? I run my own record company. Anything different and interesting to me is worth looking into. I truly believe that it is possible to make a living without a record deal. http://www.markwoodmusic.com


8. Industry events: This is a last minute announcement for those in the NY area. On Tuesday, April 13th, the Film Music Network is having a panel called Music for Video Games at Carroll Music, 351 West 41st Street (b/w 8th and 9th). Doors open at 6 PM, and the event starts at 6:30PM. Admission is $15 and that includes pizza and soda. Every one of their panels has been fantastic. They have them every month. To me, they're consistently the best panels I've been to. I go every month. The speakers are good, and are accessible after. I think that any songwriter who doesn't take advantage is crazy!! If you want more info or to get on their mailing list, email and tell her I sent you. Everyone who's gone through my recommendation has thanked me for pushing them.

Helen Keller said, "No pessimist ever discovered the secret of the stars, or sailed to uncharted land, or opened a new doorway for the human spirit." She was so right. People who expect things to go wrong have things go wrong. That's the law of the Universe. If you say that everything bad always happens to you, that's what you attract. If you expect to have good stuff, you have a better chance of getting it. At the beginning of the newsletter I quoted musicians who are successfully independent. They didn't get there by sitting home and complaining about how they weren't achieving what they wanted. They went out and got it. If you can defeat pessimism, you've won the victory of giving yourself many possibilities. I don't get everything I want. No one does. But I've accepted that I get what I need. And I'm content in that fact. It keeps my expectations realistic and I'm not disappointed like many people are. That doesn't mean I don't go after things that others would think me crazy for trying. And I achieve some of it, usually what ends up being best for me. If you can relax with your life and keep working hard to hone your craft and create possibilities by making phone calls, you can advance in your career. If you make 100 calls and no one responds, make 200 more. That was a consistent thread in the attitude of the musicians I've interviewed. Persevere with optimism and you'll get a lot more than being pessimistic and giving up.

Enjoy the first blossoms of spring with a big smile. Until the next issue.....

Keep your passion strong,
Daylle

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